Charitable Decision

>> Saturday, April 4, 2009

Anyone who is pregnant now or has been pregnant (recently, anyway) probably has experienced the influx of "coupons" and informational packets that come with things like buying maternity clothes. I know that any coupons or information that come to the house for "Stephanie Pavlov" have come from companies who bought a list from the Destination Maternity store in Cherry Hill. For some reason, they can't get my name spelled correctly there.

Anyway, so a lot of the information that comes to the house, or to my e-mail, is about cord blood banking. Once your baby is born, you have the option of preserving his or her cord blood. Because it's full of all the goodness that helps fetuses grow -- i.e. stem cells -- it holds promise to help cure any number of diseases and disorders, or at least participate in finding those cures. From what I've read, it's not necessarily useful for the baby him- or herself, though, because if that baby develops any kind of genetic issue that would require stem cell-from-cord blood intervention, well, then the genetically diseased stem cells wouldn't solve the problem. However, siblings and other family members -- or others -- can benefit from the nutrient-rich blood. It seems like a waste to me to just throw away this resource.

That last point brings me to my decision. Unfortunately, because it's still so rare, cord blood banking is awfully expensive. It's about $1,000 to harvest the blood once the baby is born, and then it's about $125-$150 per year to store it. Given that you are never sure when, or if, you'll be using this, the baby's blood could be stored in this bank for years and years and years. Who can afford that?

Donating this cord blood, however, is free if your hospital collects it. It just so happens that Virtua -- where I'll be delivering -- does. I'll contact the New Jersey Cord Blood Bank a month or two before the baby is born, and they'll determine if we (the baby and me!) are an eligible donor. Then the baby's first act, basically after taking that breath, will be a charitable one!

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Steph and Bill

We officially met at Rowan University, in Bozorth Hall, in publication layout class in January 2003: Bill was a student, I was the professor’s helper. He kept pretending he didn’t know how to make bulleted lists, but I knew he just wanted me to keep running over to his computer.


We basically moved in together and started dating at the same time, and spent a couple of years hanging out and dreaming about the future and driving up and down the NJ Turnpike from our parents houses to “our” apartment in Glassboro, until we both moved back home after graduation from grad school. Where the pressure to get married already really started.


On June 17, 2005, I suggested we go into the city to see the Empire State Building, because it was something neither of us had ever done. On the walk from the train, I put on my left hand a ring he had given me for Christmas — I said I didn’t need a ring to know we were going to get married, and anytime he got around to it was fine. Whatever. Typical Steph-fighting-words.


When we got to the Empire State Building, I tried to go inside, but he kept me outside, saying how big the building was. I said, yeah, that’s great, let’s go inside, and started to walk toward the door. He grabbed my arm and spun me around to kiss and hug me, and said, Take that ring off that hand. If you’re going to have a ring on that hand, it has to be the right one. And he put his hand in his pocket and pulled out a box and got down on his knee on the New York concrete and proposed. People coming out of the building stopped to watch. I cried.


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Miss Maeberry

Miss Maeberry came into our lives on March 24, 2007. She was born Jan. 11 of that year in the Poconos, and we rescued her as soon as we could. (Not really, but, well, we were glad to bring her home from the breeders’.) She was a tiny, scared, little bundle of fur … and then she grew up. Aside from the plethora of health issues she has, she’s a bit crazy. But we love her anyway.


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Xavier Shea

The love of all of our lives, and the main subject of this blog. Xavier came into our lives on Aug. 1, 2009, and quickly shot up both on the growth charts and in our hearts.


Let’s not waste anymore time here and just get to it, shall we?

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