They say the mind is the first to go...

>> Thursday, April 23, 2009

At 26 weeks and two days, I feel great. Overall. "Overall" I still haven't experienced any major pregnancy issues, physically, mentally or emotionally. I haven't had any ridiculous cravings. I haven't broken down in hysterics in Target because I couldn't find the body wash I wanted or the rack of maternity leggings. I completely skipped both nausea and food aversions. And "overall" I haven't had any major aches and pains, although the back pain and hip bone issues I've been feeling lately are getting worse instead of better. But I knock on wood and thank both God and my lucky stars every day that I would barely even notice anything was different, if not for the weight gain and karate chops from the inside of my belly.

One other thing I've been noticing recently, though, is the inability to keep ANYTHING in my head. Anything at all. Conversation topics. Things I need to do. Words. Ideas. Thoughts. Songs! Everything comes in and goes out and I never know whether I'll see any of these things again.

For example, one night last week (or the week before? I can't remember), Bill asked me a question about something that had happened at work, and I started to tell him the story. But I needed constant prodding and literal help from him to get the story out, because I couldn't focus on it long enough to remember the details. It was really frustrating for me, and for Bill, who kept yelling at me to finish the story, which then caused me to yell back at him because I really could not help it. And now I can't even remember what the story was about.

The reason I bring this up is because I had a great idea for a blog this morning when I was getting dressed -- I think I was putting on my socks -- and it has since gone from my head. I thought of it, then thought it would make a good blog topic, and then my brain, apparently, disagreed because it pushed the thought right out of my ear into the hallway, where I'm sure it scurried down the steps and out into the beautiful day.

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Steph and Bill

We officially met at Rowan University, in Bozorth Hall, in publication layout class in January 2003: Bill was a student, I was the professor’s helper. He kept pretending he didn’t know how to make bulleted lists, but I knew he just wanted me to keep running over to his computer.


We basically moved in together and started dating at the same time, and spent a couple of years hanging out and dreaming about the future and driving up and down the NJ Turnpike from our parents houses to “our” apartment in Glassboro, until we both moved back home after graduation from grad school. Where the pressure to get married already really started.


On June 17, 2005, I suggested we go into the city to see the Empire State Building, because it was something neither of us had ever done. On the walk from the train, I put on my left hand a ring he had given me for Christmas — I said I didn’t need a ring to know we were going to get married, and anytime he got around to it was fine. Whatever. Typical Steph-fighting-words.


When we got to the Empire State Building, I tried to go inside, but he kept me outside, saying how big the building was. I said, yeah, that’s great, let’s go inside, and started to walk toward the door. He grabbed my arm and spun me around to kiss and hug me, and said, Take that ring off that hand. If you’re going to have a ring on that hand, it has to be the right one. And he put his hand in his pocket and pulled out a box and got down on his knee on the New York concrete and proposed. People coming out of the building stopped to watch. I cried.


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Miss Maeberry

Miss Maeberry came into our lives on March 24, 2007. She was born Jan. 11 of that year in the Poconos, and we rescued her as soon as we could. (Not really, but, well, we were glad to bring her home from the breeders’.) She was a tiny, scared, little bundle of fur … and then she grew up. Aside from the plethora of health issues she has, she’s a bit crazy. But we love her anyway.


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Xavier Shea

The love of all of our lives, and the main subject of this blog. Xavier came into our lives on Aug. 1, 2009, and quickly shot up both on the growth charts and in our hearts.


Let’s not waste anymore time here and just get to it, shall we?

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